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My friend who has BPD also has grand dreams of what she will be in life, where she will live and so forth. The reality of her day to day is that it takes her a very long time to accomplish little things, so getting from where she is to where she believes she is going is not going to happen...but that is what mental illness is about.....and my heart hurts that it's so.....
GodsStudent wrote:If the owner of the property gave the plaintiff a confession of judgment, then the owner is cooperating with the plaintiff in the case to avoid a lengthy foreclosure period, so it looks like things won't go the "normal" course, as it's a rare thing, at least here in SC, for the property owner to do such a thing (from what I've seen). I am NOT a lawyer, so I am only speaking to things I know as a common person. (I know you know I am not a lawyer, but want to make it clear to anyone reading).
Anyway, I imagine your SIl will get notice to vacate soon enough.....
Spreading Salt wrote:Dearest Yeshua,
We know You are in control of all things. In this situation, we pray for peace for RT. Help her to trust You. Use this season to grow faith and heal relationships. We pray for protection for RT's MIL as she opens her home. Please prevent the hoarding to overtake her environment. While they are all together, heal relationships and keep open discussion as to the needs of the home. Let RT be involved as much as You desire her involvement Lord and with the noninvolvement, help her to accept those times too. Use it all for something wonderful Lord. We also pray that RT's SIL and son can find their own place within their budget as soon as possible. Amen.
GodsStudent wrote:Praying for you all.
There is enough time, for now, to implement a place for the SIL to move to, as long as everyone is honest and firm in their boundaries and needs. If the daughter knows for sure that she cannot move into mom's house, bottom line, and no manipulation will be tolerated, then she will redirect. Make sure the messages aren't mixed, but very clear, so she won't wishfully think (with a little love bombing and manipulation tossed in there for good measure!).
I am going to give it a couple weeks, and then I may go to my sister in law myself and confront her about her need to find a place right away.
She has made "love bombing and manipulation" into an art form!
burien1 wrote::praying: for this situation.
Don`t have much time to comment anymore. My own life is a bit upside down the last 5-6 months. I am taking care of my mom, who has stage 4 cancer.
Keeping up with prayer requests even if you don`t see me comment.
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